I was so absorbed in prepping for my 3-Day Challenge which starts today, time passed me by. Oh no! No blog post???
On the contrary, being human, you and I forget stuff, mess up and drop balls on occasion which is a whole blog post in itself. But, not today.
Today is simply about not beating yourself up when you do. Old me would have called me stupid, battered me around the head for not being good enough, ya-di-ya-di-ya! Where on earth do we get the idea we have to be perfect?
Having high standards for yourself is great. They’re like a carrot to your potential that yells yippee every time you stretch yourself a little. But expecting perfection from yourself or demanding you meet those standards 110%? That’s an act of self-violence!
So, if you are violent or even just a little unkind to yourself at times…
STOP!
Who you are is pure consciousness and Will; a gorgeous Wild Soul wanting to incarnate through your personality which, I promise you, is doing the very best it can at any given time. That includes forgetting stuff, messing up, and dropping balls now and again.
So, when you catch yourself beating yourself up about ANYTHING, take a deep breath in and a deep breath out, and say silently in your head… or out loud if you prefer… ‘I forgive myself for beating myself up and I choose love instead!
Repeat as often as you need for the tension to disappear and you become soft with yourself instead.
Love is your birthright, woman, and does, indeed, madly-wildly-deeply-truly change everything!
Love and wild warm wishes…
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PS… Love is the reason I’m running my awesome 3-Day Inner Wisdom Challenge that will help you find your true heart’s desire… Day 1 happens this evening so there’s still time. If you’re curious, full details and sign up are here now…