Ever felt like you’d love to soar but it’s like someone’s got their hands around your throat and you can’t breathe let alone say or do the thing you’d love to say or do?
The brutal truth is no one but no one is stopping you now, woman, except you…
W T F!
That kind of ‘self-sabotage’ is usually explained by you having a fear of failure, it all going wrong, OR a fear of success, it all going very right. And, by very right, I mean you stepping into your magnificence, the most awesome and divinely blessed version of you…
O M G…
Stepping into your magnificence!
Your family and the culture into which you were born probably conditioned you NOT TO BE the shining star you really are. So, what if ‘they’ don’t love you or find you acceptable anymore and chuck you out of the tribe?
And there you have it… The ancient fear of exile and not surviving on your own; the existential fear of the unknown and death.
That’ll do it for most women… including me!
Now, I don’t offer clichéd solutions like ‘change your mind-set, change your life!’ You’re gorgeously unique and how you journey to release yourself from these primeval fears will be too.
And even so…
While your reaction might be frustration and beating yourself up for being so fearful and getting in your own way, it’s time to STOP…
Imagine instead bathing the ‘choked’ part of you in the gentle healing energy of love and compassion, letting it gently fall upon her head and cascade very slowly down until it embraces and holds all of her body gently and safely.
Notice how you feel now…
Love and wild warm wishes…
Create a more meaningful relationship
with yourself and your life.
PS… Spiritual growth has featured strongly as an answer in my Midlife Survey. And, as love and fear can’t co-exist, I hope you enjoyed the spiritual first step to overcoming self-sabotage.
If you’d like to hear more about the results and who’s won the 3 Tarot Consultations, join me live on Zoom at 10.30 am this Friday here…