In my almost 77 years I’ve never witnessed such a lack of LOVE!
If you, like me, have been watching the political shenanigans over the pond and have been shaking your head in disbelief, I totally understand.
An absolute lack of LOVE!
Now, I could list all the wars, conflicts and lack of statesmanship around the world, but you know what’s going on…
An absolute lack of LOVE!
BTW did you notice how I didn’t femininize the word “statesmanship” as I do sometimes? That’s because it has nothing to do with we women. Many toxic-men-children have come to power and where they rule there’s…
An absolute lack of LOVE!
I want to make it clear this is not about all men. It’s about those who uphold the patriarchy, who say “pish” to not just we women but to the many strong, able and loving men in the world too.
An absolute lack of LOVE!
If you’re pointing the finger out there, as I am right now, three of your fingers point back at you.
And the question to ask is, “Where is there an absolute lack of LOVE in me?”
Well, it could be the inner critic who berates you about not being good enough. It could be the part of you that feels a fraud, alone and fearing exposure. It could be the child in you who was so badly hurt.
In this respect, Mahatma Gandhi didn’t say, “Be the change you want to see in the world”, although it’s generally thought he did. What he said was far more profound…
“We but mirror the world. All the tendencies present in the outer world are to be found in the world of our body. If we could change ourselves, the tendencies in the world would also change…… This is the divine mystery supreme.” – Mahatma Gandhi
When we do the work to heal, grow and access more LOVE within, we influence the collective unconscious in that direction too.
And while you might feel what you can bring is a mere drop in the ocean, imagine how billions of people all over the world bringing their drops too could fill that freakin’ ocean with LOVE…
AND turn the tide!
So, if you think there’s nothing you can do to improve this crazy world in which we live, do that, woman…
Do that!
What’s LOVE got to do, got to do with it?
Last week, three women, through a guided meditation I offered, zapped the world with Divine Feminine fire and healing. I felt touched and tearful by the sacred work we created in our coming together.
And so, putting my money where my mouth is, I’m delighted you’re the first to know that at 7.55 – 8.15pm, on Tuesday, 25 March, I’m holding another guided meditation event.
This time we’ll be accessing the powerful and healing energy of LOVE… of course!
Stick it in your diary now…
PS… I couldn’t resist giving you the link where you can hear Tina Turner singing, “What’s Love Got to do with It?” Totally irrelevant but I love a bit of Tina… Scroll down to the last item in the play list 😊
Transition time!
I know myself well enough to know something’s marinating in me. I’m getting that itchy-scratchy feeling I always get when I’m being called to stretch and grow some more.
As always, my mind has no idea about the nature or direction of that growth. So, as always, I’ll patiently wait for the clues to drop down one by one…
When I know, you’ll know too!
A simple and quick one this time…
Imagine the healing energy of LOVE manifesting like moonbeams on a dark night in the countryside, or, if you prefer, like fairy dust or the sparkling lights of Tinkerbell’s wand.
There might be colour in your imagination or not… Just trust your inner wisdom as to how the healing energy looks or is sensed for you.
Now, close your eyes and imagine yourself being gently showered by the healing energy of love.
Like any shower, you might need to increase or reduce the flow of the energy. So, be sensitive to what’s right for you whether that’s a dribble or a torrent.
Spend as long as you need being showered by the powerful and healing energy of love… and notice how you feel!
BTW, if you can’t do this exercise, be gentle with yourself. If you’ve been greatly deprived of LOVE, it can feel too searing to do. Next time, dilute the energy, only using, say, 10% of it, and see how you get on.
As I close this blog, a gentle reminder that LOVE and fear cannot co-exist in our feelings. So, consider how the collective unconscious and all beings would benefit from being showered with LOVE.
Even those toxic-men-children, woman…
Even them!
Love and wild warm wishes…

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